Getting your toddler to brush his teeth can be a huge feat in and of itself. It’ll probably take them until they’re 4 or 5 to truly master it to the point where you don’t have to supervise. Even if they manage to not eat and swallow the toothpaste like it was candy, you’ll still need to make sure they get everywhere they need to.

That said, different techniques work for different kids’ personalities. Here are some of the basics to set yourself up for success, and some tips to encourage this essential habit.

• Use a soft-bristled toothbrush designed for kids
• Use non-fluoridated toothpaste that’s got a flavor your kid enjoys
• Make brushing part of a routine. My son brushes in the morning after breakfast and at night after his bedtime snack
• If they fight at first, don’t worry. Try to make it fun and if they put up a huge fuss, leave it for another night. They’ll get used to it.
• Brush with them. Brush your own teeth with your toothbrush or theirs.
• Use two toothbrushes. One for them to use and one for you to do the real cleaning.
• Make funny noises and open your mouth wide. When they crack a grin whoosh in with the toothbrush.
• Brush in small circles. Get the tops, bottoms, fronts and backs of their teeth and gums.
• Don’t force it. The second they stop having fun (at least in the beginning), the more they’ll fight it.